“Pray with your woman, sing with your woman, play with your woman, dance with your woman, with no idea of sex. Don’t go on thinking, when are we going to bed? Forget about it.
And some day Love will arise out of that being lost.
Suddenly, you will see that you are making love and you are not making it. It is happening. You are possessed by it. Then you have your first Tantra experience, possessed by something bigger than you.
You were dancing or you were singing together or you were chanting together or you were praying together or meditating together, and suddenly you find you both have moved into a new space. And you don’t know when you have started making love; you don’t remember either.
Then you are being possessed by Tantra energy. And then for the first time you will see a non-technical experience.”
OSHO – Indian Tantric Mystic